i don't know if this has happend to any of you lot but i don't seem to be recieving any private messages has this happened to anyone else??

Do you mean in game or on the fansite here itself?

If it's the site here, you may have turned off the receiving private messages feature. :) Check it out in User CP.

where is the user cp
??

Here is the link:
http://www.vmkforums.com/forums/usercp.php?. It is also the button on the top of your screen with the Jungle Cruise boat.

Hope it helps!
-Tink

write over post reply and next to FAQ (thats one) the other is on the same as line like HOME

what do you click on to turn private message thing

Click on the left : "EDIT OPTIONS"

it's turned on though can someone send me one see if it comes up