View Full Version : Goodbye VMKF, I don't like feeling like a ghost!!
allymatey 01-02-2008, 02:26 AM Why doesn't anyone comment on my pictures or talk to me? I really want to leave this place, I talked to Lauren and Skyler about it and they agree with me, they said that maybe I should leave. So I am going to leave, I might be back, but I don't think I will. I have enough stress from my family and at school as it is, I really don't need more.As the title says, I really don't like feeling like a ghost. So I am leaving for that reason. I havn't been here that long and I already want to leave. Most places I sign up on I like (RuneScape, VMK & Pirates of the Caribbean Online). But this place I hate! I don't think anything will convince me to stay!!!
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Mooshu 01-02-2008, 02:32 AM Aww, I'm sorry to hear that your being treated this way, but I don't exactly blame you.
Hope you have a nice and happy new year.
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Skylar 01-02-2008, 02:34 AM Wait, you talked to me, or someone else??? Well, I'm sorry you're leaving.
SpinMarty 01-02-2008, 02:35 AM I will reply to this.
You haven't really given the forums a chance. You have posted 21 times and only one was a photo post asking for opinions (the one of the Corpse Bride photos, which were cool, btw). People responded to your "Phantom of the Opera" thread as well as other threads.
Keep in mind that you also joined during the holiday seasons (Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc) and people get very busy. That someone doesn't respond doesn't mean that people are trying to ignore you. Trust me, if I though every time a post of mine wasn't responded to I was being ignored I would need a therapy session. Ask Neoteny - our most frequent poster, not everything he writes gets a response.
If you choose to go, that is your decision but don't base that decision on your short experience here without giving it a chance.
Regards,
SpinMarty
VMKf moderator
Doxieluver37 01-02-2008, 02:36 AM not trying to be rude or anything but the fourums are a great and fun place.
if you gave it a chance you might feel diferently. try perticipating and contributing in the fourums activities and disscussion. it might help:]
futureimagineer1117 01-02-2008, 02:36 AM Looking at your post count, you've only made 21 posts. Just because nobody's talked to you, doesn't mean that no one likes you. There are around 1000 users on the forums, not everyone knows everyone else.
You've only been on a couple months. VMKF takes a while to get into, take it from someone here for over 2 years.
If I were you, I'd at least give VMKF a bigger chance. I'm willing to be your friend, and I'm sure many people are too.
I know I'm going to make an effort to make you happier, and hopefully everyone else will follow suit!
(Well said, SpinMarty!)
SpinMarty 01-02-2008, 02:39 AM There are around 1000 users on the forums, not everyone knows everyone else.
Actually much more than 1000
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MinniesDream 01-02-2008, 02:40 AM I agree with SpinMarty.
I have looked at your posts, and didn't bother to reply because, as SpinMarty said, I was very busy getting credits and such!
I hope you will stay, but either way, I will respect your decision.
Doxieluver37 01-02-2008, 02:46 AM I will reply to this.
You haven't really given the forums a chance. You have posted 21 times and only one was a photo post asking for opinions (the one of the Corpse Bride photos, which were cool, btw). People responded to your "Phantom of the Opera" thread as well as other threads.
Keep in mind that you also joined during the holiday seasons (Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc) and people get very busy. That someone doesn't respond doesn't mean that people are trying to ignore you. Trust me, if I though every time a post of mine wasn't responded to I was being ignored I would need a therapy session. Ask Neoteny - our most frequent poster, not everything he writes gets a response.
If you choose to go, that is your decision but don't base that decision on your short experience here without giving it a chance.
Regards,
SpinMarty
VMKf moderator
i completly agree:]
EtnaGreen 01-02-2008, 02:50 AM Why do you feel like a ghost? how do you feel like a ghost? maybe you should talk to a few more people then just two. If you have stress at home and at school this is a good place to vent and relax, I am sure plenty of us will be willing to listen. Plus your new its hard to get noticed post alot make people notice you.
allymatey 01-02-2008, 02:53 AM I think you might be right, maybe I should try to give VMKF a chance, maybe I am convinced, ( which usually doesn't happen ) I might stay. Thanks
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la4gator 01-02-2008, 02:54 AM i completly agree:]
me too. u do only have 21 posts. u cant expect to be popular with in a short amount of time. you have been here for 1-2 months. i personally felt the same wen when i joined but i got over it within a month or so. But still i wouldn't leave if i was in your shoes
FrostBiteDragon 01-02-2008, 03:00 AM I think you might be right, maybe I should try to give VMKF a chance, maybe I am convinced, ( which usually doesn't happen ) I might stay. Thanks
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whoa, where did you find the second picture ?
Beautiful 01-02-2008, 03:01 AM when i first joined VMKF and VMK i thought what in the world? no one is repling. But you have to give it time maybe you should have a friend on VMKF like me that could hang out with you on VMKF and VMK to help it soak in :D
.:. Beautiful
FlyingCinder 01-02-2008, 03:04 AM Ok, I'm all of you staying here at VMKF, and I agree with SpinMarty's well-worded post. But please, you are blinding me with your excessive use of animated smileys xP
Capn_Brain 01-02-2008, 03:06 AM we all begin in the first months feeling alone here. people don't usually trust the new people. it will get better trust me once you figure out where everything is and how to do it all, your life here will be great. we will be one big happy VMK family. I know most people here and have seen them sometime on VMK and they can be very nice (with some exceptions). Don't worry have fun, enjoy being a kid as long as you may and VMK is a wonderful place. VMKF will always have room for you and many other members.
~Brain
Beautiful 01-02-2008, 03:07 AM we will be one big happy VMK family. I know most people here and have seen them sometime on VMK and they can be very nice (with some exceptions).
~Brain
and yes our families sometimes make fun of each other by calling each other 'ugly fool' but we are just joking
FlyingCinder how did you make the hearts in your signature or whatever? and see look at all the people that have replied :D
.:. Beautiful
FlyingCinder 01-02-2008, 03:18 AM Beautiful: I copied and pasted from Tmkttt's user title xDD
On TOPIC: Yes, it may take a while and yes I felt like a ghost at the beginning as well. But hey, everyone already has a family and it's so big it's hard to notice others who join everyday until they have posted a sum of nice well-written posts. So keep working on it!
autoalice 01-02-2008, 03:24 AM I think you might be right, maybe I should try to give VMKF a chance, maybe I am convinced, ( which usually doesn't happen ) I might stay. Thanks
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Where did you get those pictures of the Nightmare Tarot? I am in love with those!
This place is a hugely busy place, it's easy to feel lost or not noticed. I hope you decide to stick around, there are some amazing people around here and it's an amazing resource for VMK as well :)
edit: guess they didn't add when I quoted. But the ones that are at the end of your post where the rest of the quote came from LOL
edit again..I can't seem to type today...
allymatey 01-02-2008, 03:27 AM whoa, where did you find the second picture ?
www.grimghosts.com or www.doombuggies.com I can't remember, but that's usually where I usually get my Haunted Mansion pictures from those web sites. By the way FrostBiteDragon, I like your avatar, where did you find that?
:smiley33:
strikemaster 01-02-2008, 03:37 AM You should stay, I was new here, but gained a friend by being random, creative, and silly. He is still my friend on here today, first one on my list too! You belong here, you stood out and complained here, and look, you won the battle. Thats courage. You really do belong here :)
~Strike (Oh, and welcome to my buddy list :-) )
allymatey 01-02-2008, 03:40 AM Thanks strikemaster :redx:
TeddyYeti 01-02-2008, 03:49 AM Everytime I see one of these threads, I already know the outcome. :rolleyes:
DanaAirFairy 01-02-2008, 03:52 AM Glad to hear u're staying =) ?! Hope VMKF will live up to your expectations!
goofy_bout_mickey 01-02-2008, 03:58 AM I will reply to this.
You haven't really given the forums a chance. You have posted 21 times and only one was a photo post asking for opinions (the one of the Corpse Bride photos, which were cool, btw). People responded to your "Phantom of the Opera" thread as well as other threads.
Keep in mind that you also joined during the holiday seasons (Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc) and people get very busy. That someone doesn't respond doesn't mean that people are trying to ignore you. Trust me, if I though every time a post of mine wasn't responded to I was being ignored I would need a therapy session. Ask Neoteny - our most frequent poster, not everything he writes gets a response.
If you choose to go, that is your decision but don't base that decision on your short experience here without giving it a chance.
Regards,
SpinMarty
VMKf moderator
I couldn't have said it any better, Spin! And I totally agree. I would like to add that not everyone is going to respond, but given time you will find your niche in VMKF and then watch out! Things will seem much better then!:wave2:
Nemofinder 01-02-2008, 04:11 AM well I have been here a while, and people almost always reply to my posts, it just takes a while, you have to find it then type up everything etc. but look at this, two pages. happy your staying
ivanbyte9 01-02-2008, 07:52 AM allymatey, it's changing out there. You'll like it! People who are different, they're time is coming! (HAIRSPRAY) Lol but seriously, it is kinda changing. Like, almost a year ago, i wrote only one story. I only had three comments on it. And now when i write my storeis, people love it! And to me, mine are all equal ratings! Try writing a story, and see if people like it! Try looking at their avatars and write about what they like. For example:
- You See A Whole Bunch Of Jack Skeleton Avatars, So Write A Story About Jack Skeleton Trying To Save Christmas Or Something -
From there, people will be listening to you and reading all of your posts bc they think if you have good stories, then the rest of your posts will be interesting too!!! TRY IT!!!!
lemonysnicket3 01-02-2008, 07:56 AM Trying to get attention there ol' chap! Good going.
Well you can't be a instant hit. Only Chuck Norris can.
I read this thread and wouldn't have normally posted, but just so you know I was here and found it interesting... :)
futureimagineer1117 01-02-2008, 05:37 PM Actually much more than 1000
Really? I figured I was probably wrong by guessing 1000, but I thought it would be more like 10,000!
spot41414 01-02-2008, 07:29 PM Not easily convinced, eh? :rolleyes:
Glad to hear you're staying.
~Spotty
iImagine 01-02-2008, 07:56 PM You have 26 posts. You haven't been around long enough for people to treat you badly.
cteddiesgirl 01-02-2008, 08:05 PM Eh. I've been here since 2005.
I still feel like no one notices me.
But, I still come back here. I guess I'm just stubborn. ;)
allymatey 01-03-2008, 04:04 AM You have 26 posts. You haven't been around long enough for people to treat you badly.
I have 37 now, but you are right about me now being here long enough.
lemonysnicket3 01-04-2008, 02:43 AM I don't think anything will convince me to stay!!!
Remember posting that?
AceAlienHunter 01-04-2008, 03:15 AM I havn't been here that long and I already want to leave. Maybe that's why your a ghost. There r thousands of members, and your mad because you're not noticed?:eek:
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