All my friends returns,
when i open list there they are

In tent minutes i will close thread

OMG I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM!! Give it time.

Here's an easy solution: Don't open the list. ;)

Seriously: There's a lot of lag on the VMK servers this weekend. Your friends are still there; the list and messages are just taking a long time to catch up to you.

Tyvm neoteny, I reset my computer and now I dont crash and my friends are there ( few, I cant imagine to have to find them all )

It's just the lag so don't worry. :) Today, I went through to get all my NPC credits and the little pop up that says you got 20 credits didn't come up. I was like, are the daily credits gone? About fifteen minutes later, while I'm in line for the host room, the popups keep popping up. So just hold out a bit. Your friends list will display soon enough. :)

I had it...i was not on my friends list, i could click ask to be friend. i crashed when the message thing came through